As parents, it could be one of the worst days to discover that your child has succumbed to substance abuse or alcohol dependency. For most, they question themselves and try to remember what went wrong. What would you do if wake up one day and realize that you do not already know the kid in the next room?
Experts through the years have shared that it is helpful to recognize that there is so much more to the situation than just getting them into rehab or counseling. While these interventions offer great hope that they would one day get through the dependency, it should also be emphasized that your family members could play a huge role in the recuperation process.
Parents and family members should remember that:
You know the patient more than anybody else.
You may be feeling a little flat because of your child’s state at the moment, but you have to bear in your mind that it is you who know him or her the most. Your knowledge of their character can make a really great difference in the patient’s life.
Anyone in the family can provide the treatment facility or the attending medical professional the information needed for them to fully understand the situation. Taking note that each patient is different from one another, the specialists will take the details that any of you have provided and use it in establishing the best approach for the patient’s overall therapy strategy.
Cooperation has never been as important as now.
Despite the unpleasant effects of the substance abuse or alcohol dependency, your child can still appreciate when others reach out to them. When the patient feels that everyone is on board his treatment journey, he will more likely embrace the process. Letting them know that everybody is willing to listen is one of the most successful ingredients in a successful therapy.
Talking about matters outside dependency and substance abuse offers relief.
It is understandable that parents find it extremely difficult to remain positive amidst knowledge that their child is battling with dependency. The child, on the other hand, is probably also mindful of the discomfort that his or her actions have created; making him feel dreadful in every way.
As parents, it is important to remind yourself that getting on with life is part of a healthy and balanced recovery too. Offer your child and yourself a breather through conversations that have absolutely nothing to do with the rehabilitation. Hobbies, music, and close friends could be great topics. As long as they are working their program, there is no need to make every topic of discussion revolve around the dependency or therapy. Also, praise the progress because even the smallest sweet talk can make them celebrate the achievement.
Returning to their old ‘clean’ self may take time and feeling downright uncomfortable in the beginning is a normal phase. But always be reminded that there is hope and light at the end of every tunnel and that is not only for the patient, but for the entire family. With the most ideal family support, your household will work better and stronger, more than ever.